OPENING PRAYER: Father, please let me not be a stumbling block to others in the faith.
BIBLE PASSAGE: Proverbs 7:4-27
4 Say unto wisdom, Thou art my sister; and call understanding thy kinswoman:
5 That they may keep thee from the strange woman, from the stranger which flattereth with her words.

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6 For at the window of my house I looked through my casement,
7 And beheld among the simple ones, I discerned among the youths, a young man void of understanding,
8 Passing through the street near her corner; and he went the way to her house,
9 In the twilight, in the evening, in the black and dark night:
10 And, behold, there met him a woman with the attire of an harlot, and subtil of heart.
11 (She is loud and stubborn; her feet abide not in her house:
12 Now is she without, now in the streets, and lieth in wait at every corner.)
13 So she caught him, and kissed him, and with an impudent face said unto him,
14 I have peace offerings with me; this day have I paid my vows.
15 Therefore came I forth to meet thee, diligently to seek thy face, and I have found thee.
16 I have decked my bed with coverings of tapestry, with carved works, with fine linen of Egypt.
17 I have perfumed my bed with myrrh, aloes, and cinnamon.
18 Come, let us take our fill of love until the morning: let us solace ourselves with loves.
19 For the goodman is not at home, he is gone a long journey:
20 He hath taken a bag of money with him and will come home at the day appointed.
21 With her much fair speech she caused him to yield, with the flattering of her lips she forced him.
22 He goeth after her straightway, as an ox goeth to the slaughter, or as a fool to the correction of the stocks;
23 Till a dart strike through his liver; as a bird hasteth to the snare, and knoweth not that it is for his life.
24 Hearken unto me now therefore, O ye children, and attend to the words of my mouth.
25 Let not thine heart decline to her ways, go not astray in her paths.
26 For she hath cast down many wounded: yea, many strong men have been slain by her.
27 Her house is the way to hell, going down to the chambers of death.

MEMORY VERSE: “It is good neither to eat meat nor drink wine nor do anything by which your brother stumbles or is offended or is made weak.” Romans 14:21 (NKJV).

LESSON INTRODUCTION

Seduction is the process of deliberately enticing a person to engage in a relationship or to lead astray from duty, morality and the like. Also, it could be an attempt to corrupt, persuade or induce into engaging in sexual behaviour that is enticing someone to desire to have sex with the other by doing things that make sex appealing and desirable. There is also a relationship between sexual seduction and dressing, of which every Christian youth must beware.

TEXT REVIEW: Proverbs 7:4-23.
In this passage:
A. We are admonished to make wisdom and understanding our close allies – V4
B. This is because wisdom and understanding may keep us from the immoral woman and from the seductress who flatters with her words. -V5
C The writer narrates how at the window of his house, he looked through the lattice. -V6.
i. He saw among the youths, a young man…… v7
ii. Passing ………………………………………. v8
iii. …………………………………………………… v9
iv. …………………………………………………… v10
v. ……………………………………………………. v11
vi. …………………………………………………… v12
vii. ………………………………………………….. v13
viii. …………………………………………………. v14
ix. …………………………………………………… v15
x. ……………………………………………………. v16
xi. …………………………………………………… v17
xii. ………………………………………………….. v18
xiii. ………………………………………………….. v19
xiv. ………………………………………………….. v20
xv. …………………………………………………… v21
D. Immediately he went after her, …….. v22
E. An arrow struck his liver. As a bird hastens to the snare, he did not know it would cost his life. v23.

LESSON OUTLINES
LESSON OUTLINE 1: SOME SEDUCTIVE TOOLS
The teacher should allow the class to discuss some things that can trigger sexual desire, especially among youths. He should guide the class through the following points:
A. David committed adultery because he saw the nakedness of Bathsheba while she was bathing (2 Sam.11:1-4).
B. Sexual lust is induced when people who are promiscuous use nakedness to lure careless ones to unwholesome desires (Prov.7:10-13).
C. This is the same as using pornographic films, magazines or dresses to display acts and images which make people sexually excited (Job 31:1).
D. Some other tools that could be adopted for sexual seduction include fragrance, dance, body language, voice tone, etc. (Prov 7:12-15).
E. A true Christian must desist from all such things (1Thess.5:22).
i. It is a terrible offence before God to desire to see other people’s nakedness (Matt 5:28).
ii. Only insane people walk the streets naked without any feeling of shame because their understanding is darkened (Eph. 4:18)

CLASS ACTIVITY 1: Discuss how you have been or are being seduced.

LESSON OUTLINE 2: DRESS WITH CAUTION
The teacher should ask the class to discuss the purpose of dressing and teach the following:
A. When the purpose of a thing is unknown, abuse is inevitable.
B. God was the first to dress man when man was not ‘well dressed (Gen.3:7, 21).
C. The primary purpose of dress is to cover nakedness.
D. Some dresses that are only good for the bedrooms should not be worn on the streets.
E. Commercial sex workers are known for certain dressing styles to boost their trade.
F. Christian youths should not take to such forms of dressing in the name of modernisation (Prov.7:10). Because:
i. This has led to the harassment of many youths
ii. There is a strong relationship between what we see and what we think (James 1:14).
iii. Therefore, your dressing must not induce unrighteous thoughts in others (1 Cor. 14:40; Rom.14:21).
G. There is a two-fold responsibility on the dressing.
i. The man is responsible to guard his eyes against impurity (Phil 4:8; Job 31:1);
ii. The woman is responsible to dress decently and avoiding exposing sensitive parts of her body (Prov.7:6-27; 2Sam.11:2).
iii. This principle is also applicable in reversed order.

CLASS ACTIVITY 2: The class should discuss what constitutes indecent dressing among youths and the reasons for such action.

SUMMARY: Youths should not allow themselves to be caught in the web of seduction or by an agent, especially through the indecent dressing.

CONCLUSION: Any form of dressing likely to excite people sexually should not be worn by Christian youth, especially in public places (Phil.4:5; 1 Cor.8:13).

EVALUATION: The teacher should ask the students to mention some tools used for sexual seduction.

CLOSING PRAYER: Father, please help me in the fight against sexual seductions and shield me against sexual seductions.

ASSIGNMENT: Mention the names of five (5) of contemporary dressing styles that can provoke seduction.

OPENING PRAYER: Father, please guide me through the path to marriage.
BIBLE PASSAGE: Genesis 29:11-20
11 And Jacob kissed Rachel, and lifted up his voice, and wept.
12 And Jacob told Rachel that he was her father’s brother and that he was Rebekah’s son: and she ran and told her father.

13 And it came to pass, when Laban heard the tidings of Jacob his sister’s son, that he ran to meet him, and embraced him, and kissed him, and brought him to his house. And he told Laban all these things.
14 And Laban said to him, Surely thou art my bone and my flesh. And he abode with him the space of a month.
15 And Laban said unto Jacob, Because thou art my brother, shouldest thou therefore serve me for nought? tell me, what shall thy wages be?
16 And Laban had two daughters: the name of the elder was Leah, and the name of the younger was Rachel.
17 Leah was tender eyed; but Rachel was beautiful and well favoured.
18 And Jacob loved Rachel; and said, I will serve thee seven years for Rachel thy younger daughter.
19 And Laban said It is better that I give her to thee than that I should give her to another man: abide with me.
20 And Jacob served seven years for Rachel, and they seemed unto him but a few days, for the love he had to her.
MEMORY VERSE: “Test all things; hold fast what is good.” 1Thessalonians.5:21 (NKJV).
LESSON INTRODUCTION: The foundation of a godly marriage must be properly laid on sound moral and biblical principles. Before the exchange of vows, where the Christian brother and sister will say ‘I do’, they should have passed through the phase of courtship and ensure that all things are done decently and in order (1 Cor.14:40; Amos 3:3) also watch out for some ‘red flags’ before saying ‘I do’.
TEXT REVIEW: Genesis 29:11-20. In this passage:

A. Jacob met Rachael, Laban’s daughter and did the following:
i. He greeted Rachael with a kiss (according to there custom) -v11.
ii. He introduced himself to Rachel.-v12.
B. Laban heard about the arrival of Jacob and:
i. Laban embraced and kissed Jacob and…. vs13
ii. ……………………………………………………… v14.
iii. …………………………………………………….. v15

A. Laban had two daughters and……….. v16-17.
B. Jacob waited for …………………………… v18
C. Jacob got ……………………………………… v19
D. Jacob served Laban and courted Rachel faithfully because………………………………. v20.
LESSON OUTLINES

LESSON OUTLINE 1: THE IMPORTANCE OF COURTSHIP: Secluded and tempting place

(2 Cor
2:11; 1 Thess.5:22).
A. Discussion should cover their dreams, visions, the purpose for living, plans, fears, health status/history and past relationships (if any).
B. Intending couples should endeavour to discover each other’s strengths and weaknesses, likes and dislikes, differences (upbringing/orientation, cultural background), etc. through observation and by asking questions.
C. Intending couples should be open and sincere with each other in all aspects of their dealings (financial status, source of income, etc.).
D. There should be no pretence or deception (stage management of character).
E. It is also expedient that Intending couples undertake marriage counselling lessons together during courtship (Proverbs 11:14).

CLASS ACTIVITY 1: Discuss the dangers of ‘dating’ and the reasons Christian youths should avoid it.

LESSON OUTLINE 2: RED FLAGS TO WATCH OUT FOR

The teacher should explain to the class that ‘red flags’ are danger signs that connote ‘no go areas. He should then guide the discussion as follows:
A. There are a number of “red flags” to watch out for before entering a permanent marriage relationship.
B. Unfortunately, these indicators may not be visible until after the wedding takes place since some Christians are skilled at hiding their true natures or changing with circumstances.

C. However, a shortlist of things to look out for includes irrational jealousy, deception, the strive to be in control (dominate the other partner), physical or emotional abuse/violence, a quick (hot) temper, cruelty towards adherence to unscriptural traditional values, attempts to isolate the other person from his or her friends and family, a show of dislike for would-be in-laws, defiance to spiritual matters, drug or alcohol abuse, smoking, disrespect for boundaries, privacy/personal space or low moral values.

D. If you see any of these warning signs or other strange behaviours in the person you are entering a marriage relationship with, please pray and seek
advice from your spiritual leader or marriage counsellor before you say ‘I DO’. (Mk.14:38; Prov.15:22; 19:20).
E. Marriage should not be viewed as a ‘do or die’ affair. You have a destiny to fulfil (Jer 29:11). You may consider the saying that a broken courtship is better than a broken marriage’ and make a wise/informed decision. (Eccl.10:10; 1 Cor.7:15b).

CLASS ACTIVITY 2: Share with the class some strange behaviours you noticed in your intending partner (if you are engaged) and what you are doing or have done about it.

SUMMARY: It is important that Christian youths observe courtship (not dating) in a godly manner and watch out for ‘red flags’ before taking the vow of ‘I do’.

CONCLUSION: Watch and pray before you say “I DO”

EVALUATION: The teacher should ask the students to mention some of the red flags to watch out for before you say ‘I do’.

CLOSING PRAYER: Father, please help me through my courtship period and make my marriage heaven on earth.

ASSIGNMENT: Mention five of the issues that Christian youth should not compromise or overlook while preparing for marriage

Action Point
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MEMORY VERSE: “And he said unto them, Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature.” – Mark 16:15

BIBLE PASSAGE: Matthew 28:19-20 KJV
19 Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost:
20 Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you always, even unto the end of the world. Amen.

INTRODUCTION: The business of missions includes the Almighty God, the Lord Jesus Christ, the Holy Spirit and the Church. The mission is a must and all real Christians should be interested.

LESSON OUTLINES

1. Christian Missions And Home Support
2. You Can Be Personally Involved

#1 CHRISTIAN MISSIONS AND HOME SUPPORT

Missionaries are those Christians sent across geographical and cultural boundaries to proclaim the gospel. The take-off point is usually from an established body of Christ. It automatically follows, therefore, that the upkeep of the missionary there is the sole responsibility of other members of the body at home. It is written that if a member suffers, other members suffer (1 Corinthians 12:26-26). Christians are supposed to be co-labourers together with God (1 Corinthians J:8-9). Support in prayers and provision of physical needs for the missionaries on the field are the responsibilities of Christians at home. This is missions by proxy. There, on the mission field, it is expected of the missionary to concentrate in order to achieve the purpose for which God has sent him or her (Matthew 6:20-21). Any distractions whatsoever may hinder the speed of his or her primary assignments, Hence, the need for active and prompt home support.

2. YOU CAN BE PERSONALLY INVOLVED

The woman of Shunem in her spiritual perception found out the man of God (2 Kings 4:8-10). God needed a place for the man of God to lay his head, Both she and her husband agreed to make a chamber for the man of God and put there some essential things needed by him. Apostle Paul commended the Macedonian and Philippian churches for submitting themselves to the will of God and giving their substances for the cause of the gospel (2 Corinthians 11:3; Philippians 4:15-19). Similarly, Priscilla and Aquila, a wonderful Christian couple, were also helpers of Apostle Paul (Romans 16:3-4).
It is obvious that not all born again Christians can be out there on the mission field but all can be involved either directly or by proxy. If you cannot go, you can give and/or groan (pray) in support of missions.

CONCLUSION: God is still calling today, whosoever is willing should respond. You can decide to begin to support a missionary, at least.

QUESTIONS:

1. Give biblical support for missions and home support.
2. What is peculiar about the Macedonian and Philippians churches in relation to missions?

ASSIGNMENT: Mention five things that may discourage people from going into the mission field or becoming a missionary.

Action Point
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Memory Verse: “having, therefore, these promises, dearly beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God”.

Bible Passage: 2 Corinthians 7:1

Introduction
God’s desire is that his people will be cleansed outwardly and inwardly. (Zechariah 3:4). He loves those whose hearts and lives are perfect towards Him and has made adequate provision for their all-around cleansing. (Hebrews 10:22). In Psalm 51:2 David prayed for God’s cleansing. We also have a crucial role to play in this matter.
 
 

Outlines

1. Self-cleansing and its benefits
2. How can a man cleanse himself?

 
Self-cleansing and its benefits
Self-Cleansing is a conscious and decisive effort put in by man to purge himself from all filthiness (2 Corinthians 1:7) in order to become whole and acceptable to God, through the help of the Holy Spirit. It involves the thorough sanitation of a life whose filth has been revealed through the mirror of God’s word.
 
It is a renewal of one’s mind (Romans 12:2). It is putting away evil deeds. (Is 1:16), the wickedness of the heart and impure thoughts (Jeremiah 4:14). It is giving no room for sin in one’s life. (Romans 6:12).
 
Self-cleansing makes us honourable and useful vessels (2 Timothy 2:21). It is essential for those that have the hope of eternal life with Jesus (1 John 3:3). It provides a platform to appear before God blameless and to obtain answers to prayers. (Hebrews 10:22, Hebrews 4:6).
 

How can a man cleanse himself?

It is absolutely true that we are purged and cleansed through the shed blood of our Lord Jesus Christ (Hebrews 9:14, 22). However, the Bible raises a fundamental question in Psalms 119:9 “wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way?” The bible also provides the answer, “…by taking heed thereto according to thy word.”
 
Having identified the grey areas in your life, “take heed thereto” necessary adjustments and make changes to show that you fear God. Lay aside weights and besetting sins (Hebrews 12:1). Steer clear of the appearances of evil (1 Thessalonians 5:22). Wash thoroughly in the water of God’s word (Ephesians 5:26, Ezekiel 36:25). Mortify the deeds of the flesh (Romans 8:13, Colossians 3:5) – and draw near to God. (James 4:8).
 

Conclusion

God is looking for a clean and pure vessel. You can be available for His use by cleansing yourself.
 
 
 
Action Point
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Memory Verse: “The sleep of a labouring man is sweet, whether he eat little or much, but the abundance of the rich will not suffer him to sleep.” –Ecl. 5:12

Bible Passage: Proverbs 3: 21-24

Introduction
Sleep is a state of natural muscle relaxation and periodic suspension of consciousness (reduced interaction with surroundings). Like everything else God has made, sleep is good and also be greatly abused. Can we sleep too much, too little, and how important is sleep?

Outlines

1. What does the bible say about sleep?
2. Why is sleep important?

What does the bible say about sleep?

The Bible says good sleep is the result of faith and trust in God. (Psalm 4:8, 127: 2) . Sweet sleep is a reward for good labour. (Ecl. 5:12, Prov. 3:24). Also, Sleep is one of the media through which God communicates with man. (1 Kings 3:5). However, the Bible says it is not good to love sleep (Prov. 20:13); sleep too much (Prov. 6:9-11); sleep at the wrong time (Ecl 3:1; Matt 26:40-46); deprive oneself of sleep for the inordinate ambitious pursuit of wealth (Ecl. 8:16, Psalm 127: 1-2). Sleep is sometimes portrayed as a gift from God in passages such as Prov. 3:24 and Psalms 4:8.
 

Why sleep is important

Sleep is a good thing. One possible explanation for our need for sleep is that sleep reminds us that we are creatures, not the creator. One physical body must be constantly replenished with food, water, oxygen, and sleep in order to continue functioning. We know that sleeping is part of being a healthy person because Jesus had to sleep just like we do. (Luke 8:23, Mark 1:35). Sleep is a basic human need and is essential for good health, boosts memory, aid the body system against infections, replenishes the body, and improves immune functions. It is also essential for good quality of life and performing well during the day. (better productivity and concentration).
 
Sometimes, God spoke to people while they sleep through dreams and visions (Mattew 2:13, 1 kings 3:5). Too much sleep,  however, is bad. (Prov. 10:5).
 
Conclusion: Sleeping at the right time and in the right proportion is good for the health of every believer.
 

Action Point
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Memory Verse: Therefore, let us not sleep, as do others, but let us watch and be sober”- 1 Thessalonians 5:6
Bible Passage: 1 Thessalonians 5: 1-8

Introduction

Scripturally, sleep could either be cause

d naturally (Prov. 3:24), or supernaturally (Gen. 2:21). Sleep is also used as a figurative expression of death (John 11:11-13), spiritual weakness or Lukewarmness (Eph. 5:14). Spiritual sleep is considered dangerous for any believer. This calls for spiritual awakening, i.e. waking up from spiritual sleep.

OUTLINES

1. Signs And Dangers of Spiritual Sleep
2. Remedies For Spiritual Sleep

1. Signs And Dangers Of Spiritual Sleep

There are signs of indicators of spiritual sleep that every believer should watch out for, When you notice that you are: more interested in the things of the world or vigorously pursuing wealth (1 John 2:15; Ecl 5:10); manifesting more of the works of the flesh (Gal 5: 19-21); not hungry for spiritual food (Colossians 3:15-16); no longer impacted by the word of God (Isaiah 6:9-10; Jeremiah 15:16) ; no longer praying or hearing the voice of God (Romans 11:7-8); no longer thirsty for righteousness (Mattew 5:8). In addition, you may be sleeping spiritually when you think you do not need to learn (Proverb 18:2; Galatians 6:3); pursuing fame or self-glory (Jeremiah 45:5); unmindful of danger (Judges 16: 16-25; Jonah 1:3-5); lack commitment in spiritual relationships with spiritually-minded Christians (Hebrew 10:25).
 
If you are asleep spiritually, you cannot discern spiritual matters (1 Corinthians 2:11-14, Proverbs 29:18). By implication you cannot see, you cannot get (Genesis 13: 14-18; Mattew 13:24-30) and sudden destruction (Acts 20:9-12, Judges 4:17-21). You will become weak (Judges 16:20) and bring disappointment (2 Timothy 4:10). You can miss a divine appointment (Mattew 25:1-12).

2. Remedies for Spiritual Sleep

The bible calls for spiritual awakening, especially for believers that are slumbering for believers that are slumbering or already asleep in spiritual matters (Romans 13:11). Why should and how can such believers wake up?

One clear reason for spiritual awakening is the nearness of the second coming of Jesus Christ (Romans 13: 11b; Mattew 24: 42-44). Believers should also note that we are children of light and of ‘the day’ and not of ‘the night’ nor of darkness. (1 Thessalonians 5:5). To enjoy the true light in Christ, those that are sleeping spiritually must wake up (Ephesians 5:14).

Another reason to awake from spiritual sleep is to receive deliverance from the snare of the devil (2 Timothy 2: 26). Believers should wake up spiritually because we are in the season of harvest of souls into God’s kingdom (Luke 10:2). Also, it is a time of war and the enemy is wide awake (Mattew 13:25, 1 Peter 5:8).

1 Corinthians 15:34 charges every believer to awake to righteousness, strive to know God and stop sinning. If you claim to be a believer in Christ, you must constantly check your lifestyle habits to know whether you are slumbering or sleeping spiritually (2 Corinthians 13:5; Luke 21:34). Watch and pray constantly in order to remain spiritually alert (Luke 21:36; Mattew 26:41).

Conclusion

Learn to walk in the power of the Holy Spirit in order not to sleep spiritually. If you are already sleeping, wake up!

Questions

1. What are the signs and dangers of spiritual sleep?
2. Mention the remedies for spiritual sleep.

MEMORY VERSE: “Thou shalt not avenge, nor bear any grudge against the children of thy people, but thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself: I am the LORD.” – Leviticus 19:18

BIBLE PASSAGE: Romans 12:17-21

17 Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men.
18 If it be possible, as much as lieth in you, live peaceably with all men.
19 Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
20 Therefore if thine enemy hunger, feed him; if he thirsts, give him drink: for in so doing thou shalt heap coals of fire on his head.
21 Be not overcome of evil but overcome evil with good.

INTRODUCTION: Retaliation is a violent response to an act of harm or perceived injustice. To retaliate is to do something harmful or negative, to get revenge for some harm; to fight back or respond in kind to an injury or affront. Both the Hebrew and Greek words translated “vengeance”, revenge, and avenge” have the idea of punishment in there root meaning. The question of non-retaliation or non-violence is often discussed in relation to Matthew 5:38-44.

LESSON OUTLINES:

1. What Does The Bible Say About Retaliation?
2. The Proper Christian Action

1. WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY ABOUT RETALIATION?

The Bible has much to say about retaliation (revenge, avenge or vengeance) that contradicts everything that feels right to many people (Isaiah 55:9). For instance, in Romans 12:19, believers are not expected to pay back any evil done against them. Proverbs 25:21-22 and Romans 12:20 admonish us not to stoop low to the level of the offender. Believers should learn not to join their offenders in their errors (Romans 12:21; Matthew 5:39). Hebrews 10:30 also teaches us not to take matters out of God’s hands and insist on fixing things ourselves.

2. THE PROPER CHRISTIAN ACTION

Matthew 5:38-44 serve to drive home the point that a Christian, rather than avenging himself upon a brother who has done him a personal wrong should love his enemies, bless those that curse him, do good to those that hate him, and pray for those who despitefully use and persecute him. Self-vengeance has no place in the Christian life; we should allow God to bring His vengeance on our enemies rather than taking vengeance ourselves (Romans 12:19).
As believers, we must resist the impulse to retaliate but rather live at peace with all men as much as possible (Romans 12:18). Our job as Christians is to forgive, not retaliate (Luke 6:27-31). when we follow God’s commands to love, forgive, and do well to those who wrong us (Matthew 5:44), we can trust that our Defender will do what is right (Psalm 20:1; Zechariah 12:8). We can also set healthy boundaries in destructive relationships (2 Corinthians 6:17; Proverbs 22:24; Ezra 10:11) and make our ways pleasing unto God (Proverbs 16:7).

CONCLUSION: The scripture enjoins us to live peaceably with all men as much as possible. Romans 12:18.

QUESTIONS

1. Is retaliation scriptural?
2. Should believers retaliate for wrongs done against them?

FURTHER READING:
Monday: Proverbs 20:22 (KJV)
22 Say not thou, I will recompense evil, but wait on the LORD, and he shall save thee.
Tuesday: Romans 12:19 (KJV)
19 Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
Wednesday: Romans 12:17 (KJV)
17 Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men.
Thursday: Proverbs 24:29 (KJV)
29 Say not, I will do so to him as he hath done to me: I will render to the man according to his work.
Friday: 1 Thessalonian 5:15 (KJV)
15 See that none render evil for evil unto any man; but ever follow that which is good, both among yourselves, and to all men.

Saturday Matthew 8:21-22 (KJV)
21 And another of his disciples said unto him, Lord, suffer me first to go and bury my father. 22 But Jesus said unto him, Follow me; and let the dead bury their dead.
Sunday: Matthew 5:44 (KJV)
44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
ASSIGNMENT: Mention five reasons believers pray to God to send fire on their enemies.

Memory Verse: “And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment”. –Heb. 9:27.

Bible Passage: 2 Cor. 5:6-8.

Introduction
Some church denominations believe that all who die in God’s grace and friendship but are still imperfectly purified are indeed assured of their eternal salvation but will undergo the process of purification which they call purgatory, so as to achieve the holiness necessary to enter the joy of heaven. According to them, a purgatory is also a place or condition of punishment for those who, departing this life in God’s grace, are not entirely free from forgivable fault, or have not fully paid the price due to their transgressions. Is this doctrine of Purgatory in agreement with the Bible? Absolutely not!

OUTLINES

WHAT DOES THE BIBLE SAY ABOUT PURGATORY

The doctrine of purgatory was falsely formulated by reference to biblical verses that speak of purifying fire (1 Cor. 3:15) and 1 Peter 1:7), and to the mention by Jesus of “forgiveness in the age to come” (Mattew12:32). The analogy made in 1 Cor. 3: 11-15) affects only believers that have made it to heaven and are awaiting their rewards at the judgment seat of Christ. Sinners or unbelievers are not included here, they go straight to hell.

The eternal destination of everyone is determined instantly after death (2 Cor. 5:6-8), Apostle Paul wrote that believers are “builders” whose quality of works, on the foundation of Christ, shall be tested “By fire” on the Day of Judgment (2 Cor. 5:10), 1 Cor. 3:11-15) does not say that believers pass through the fire for cleansing. Rather, it is the believer’s works that will pass through the fire. Fire, in this context, is symbolic, of the test of motive or objectivity behind the believer’s works.

The statement made by Jesus”…it shall not be forgiven him, neither in this world, neither in the world to come” (Matt. 12:32). Was a proverbial expression among the Jews for a thing that will never be done? This scripture does not paint a picture of a chance of forgiveness of sins after death. God’s wrath shall overtake any sinner who refuses to genuinely repent before death (Ps. 9:17, Matt. 13: 49-50). Hence, it is baseless to pray to God for forgiveness on behalf of the dead.

#2. DEBUNKING THE WRONG CONCEPT

Purgatory, like many other heretical beliefs, is based on a misunderstanding of the nature of Christ’s sacrifice. The proponents of purgatory fail to understand that Jesus’ once and for all sacrifice was absolutely and perfectly sufficient. (Hebrews 7:27). They view meritorious works as contributing to salvation due to a failure to recognize that Jesus’ sacrificial payment has no need for additional “contribution” (Ecl. 2:8-9).

Similarly, Purgatory is understood by them as a piece of cleansing in preparation for heaven because they do not recognize that because of Jesus’ sacrifice, we are already cleansed (1 john1:21, 14). They also base their teaching on the practice of praying for the dead because they fail to recognize that Jesus’ death was sufficient to pay the penalty for ALL of our sins.

Jesus who was GOD incarnate (John 1:1, 14) paid an infinite price for our sin. Jesus died for our sins. (1 Cor. 15:3). Jesus is the atoning sacrifice for our sins. (1 John 2:2; Romans 5:8; Is 53:5). The idea that we have to suffer for our sins after death is contrary to everything the Bible says about salvation.

CONCLUSION
There is no basis for purgatory in the Bible. Therefore, make your way right before you die.

QUESTIONS

1. What does the Bible say about purgatory?
2. Is the concept of purgatory scripturally correct? Explain.

Memory Verse: But the day of the Lord will come as a thief in the night, in which the heavens shall pass away with a great noise, and the elements, shall melt with fervent heat, the earth also and the workthat are therein shall be burned up”. 2 Peter 3: 10.

Bible Passage: Is. 13: 6-22.

Introduction

The event usually referred to as “the end of the world” (escathon) is described in 2 Peter 3:10; this is the culmination of a series of events called “The day of the Lord”. The Bible has alot to say about the end times. Nearly every book of the Bible contains prophesy regarding the end times. Taking all of these prophesies and organizing them can be difficult. Following is a brief summary of what the Bible declares will happen in the end times.

Outlines

1. From Rapture To The Great Tbulation
2. The Millennial Reign To The End

From Rapture To The Great Tribulation
Christ will remove all born-again believers from the earth in an event known as the “rapture” ( 1 Thess. 4: 13-18; 1 Cor. 15:51-54). At the judgment seat of Christ, these believers will be rewarded for good works and faithful service during there time on earth or will loose rewards, but not eternal life, for lack of service and obedience. (1 Cor. 3:11-15; 2 Cor. 5:10).

The Antichrist (the beast) will come into power and will sign a covenant with Isreal for seven years (Daniel 9:27). This seven-year period of time is known as the “tribulation”. During the tribulation, there will be a terrible war, famine, plagues, and natural disasters. God will be pouring out His wrath against sin, evil and wickedness.

About halfway through the seven years, the Antichrist will break the peace covenant with Israel and make war against it. The Antichrist will commit “the abomination of desolation” and set up an image of himself to be worshipped in Jerusalem temple. (Dan. 9:27; 2 Thess. 2:3-10) which will have been rebuilt. The second half of the tribulation is known as “the great tribulation” (Rev. 7:14) and “the time of Jacob’s trouble” (Jer. 30:7).

The Millennial Reign To The End

At the end of the seven-year tribulation, the Antichrist will launch a final attack on Jerusalem, culminating in the “battle of Armageddon” (Rev. 16:16; 19:19-20). Jesus Christ will return, destroy the Anti-Christ and his armies, and cast them into the lake of fire (Rev. 19:11-21). Christ will rule his earthly kingdom for this thousand-year period (Rev. 20:1-6).

At the end of the thousand years, Satan will be released and will deceive many. He will be defeated again and then cast into the lake of fire. (Rev. 20:7-9) for eternity. Christ then judges all unbelievers at the great white throne judgment, casting them into the lake of fire. Death hell will also be cast into the Lake of fire. (Rev. 20:10-15).

Christ will then usher in a new heaven and new earth and the New Jerusalem- the eternal dwelling place of believers. There will be no more sin, sorrow, or death. (Rev. 21-22)

Conclusion

The knowledge of these end-time events is for believers to be well prepared.

Questions

1. Briefly describes the series of events from the time of the rapture to the great tribulation.
2. What will happen between the period of the millennial reign and the end of this present world?

The Essence Of Praise. RCCG Sunday School. 5/09/2021

Memory Verse: “I will praise thee, O Lord, with my whole heart, I will shew forth all thy marvellous works”- Psalm 9:1.
Bible Passage: Psalm 67: 3-7.

Introduction

In our day-to-day dealing with ourselves, thanksgiving and praises are considered very important especially when we receive any help from anyone. This show of appreciation usually acts as an impetus to receiving similar assistance or gift in future. We as Christians should know that God who is our Father loves us even more than our earthly father does.

The only thing we can do in order to show our appreciation is by praising Him no matter the circumstances that come on our way. We must cultivate the habit of praising God and thanking Him all the days of our lives. The first principle a Christian should learn, should be how to develop the habit of praising God. (Psalm 105:1-3). 

OUTLINES

1. Why should we praise God?
2. Accepted Praise

Why Should we praise God? 

If we want our lives to be full of miracles and wonders, it is necessary for us to know that the formula is in praising God. The attributes of God are sufficient reasons for us to praise him. That is one reason the angels praise God continually. (Is. 6:3). God’s holiness is linked with His Glory, He is glorious in holiness, fearful in praises, doing wonders (Ex. 15:11).

When we praise God, we have victories over our enemies(Ps. 18:3). We should praise God for His goodness and His wonderful works (Psalms 107:8). If we praise God, He will take note and this will gladden His Heart (Psalm 22:3). God is righteous and His righteousness demands that we should praise Him. (Psalm 7:17).

God is a jealous God and His jealousy demands that we must show His sovereignty over all things by praising him (Ex. 34:14). He is the only One and demands for Himself alone worship and praisers to which He has a right. (Ex. 20: 3-4). Praise is an acceptable sacrifice before God. (Heb. 13:15). 

Dangers of Ingratitude

Ingratitude is the result of vain imagination and a darkened heart. Sometimes your thanksgiving is senseless to the ordinary person but it is more profitable to be thankful than to grumble or complain. (Romans 1:12; Prov. 15:8). There are several reasons people are ungrateful to God. Sin or spiritual blindness (Eph. 4:17-18). Refusal to take account of what God has done (Romans 1:21), Pride (Acts 12:21-23). 

Every act of ingratitude comes with its attendant danger. Risk of losing the existing blessing, salvation and Heaven (Matt. 25: 24,5,30). Limiting one’s blessing or answered prayers (Luke 17:12;16:19). It could result in emptiness and sorrow(Proverbs 15:13;17:22) thereby, making restoration practically difficult. 

Conclusion

Showing gratitude to God ensures continuous divine presence and fellowship.

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Memory Verse: “Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour of the LORD”– Prov. 18:22. 

Bible Passage: Genesis 24:1-19. 

Introduction

Marriage is the intimate union or legal relationship between a husband and wife that should last for a lifetime (Genesis 2:21-23). The steps taken before going on the journey are very important to prevent pitfalls. In knowing God’s will, therefore, you do not have to rely on vague feelings and strange rituals. As a child of God, you have his Word, His Spirit within you and His ministers to guide you and counsel you.

OUTLINES 

RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD FIRST 

Marriage is a creation of God. It all started with Him (Genesis 2;18). God will only guide His own (Jeremiah 10:23). He wants us to know and do His will and He is actively involved in revealing it. Therefore, before seeking God’s will for marriage, develop a relationship with Him (ps. 119:130; Ps. 119:105). You must not live your life in fear but in fellowship with God (2 Timothy 1:7). Develop your God-given gift and master how God deals with or guides your steps (Psalms 85:8; Psalms 37:23). Discover your purpose through a relationship with Jesus Christ (John 18:37). This will reduce stress, give your life meaning and prepare you for eternity (2Peter 1;3-4). You must be found working in His will (vineyard) like Adam and have a source of income (Genesis 2:15-18) because marriage is not for lazy people. 

Pre-marital Counsel 

God does not want His children to be joined with unbelievers (2 Cor.:14-16; 1 Cor. 6:15-17). How then do we recognise God’s will in marriage?

1. Through the word of God (Prov. 3:5-7). God has placed His word in our hands so we could have a more objective set of guidelines to follow than dreams, feelings and impulses. Despite your dreams and conviction, pray to have a scriptural backing (Prov. 18:22, Genesis 2:22; Prov. 19:14). 
2. God will work in you to do His will. He will use circumstances and situations to perfect His will for your life (Romans 8:28; Phil. 2:12-13). You must, therefore, remain sensitive, paying attention to doors He opens and closes to direct your path. 
3. Through the council of elders or spiritual heads in the church (Psalms 1:1; Prov. 19:21; Prov. 11:14; Prov. 15:22; Acts 1:24; Titus 2:3-5). Do not let the passion for sex, peer/parental pressure, age, poverty etc influence your hasty decision. At such sensitive moments, do not despise godly counsel from spiritual heads (Prov. 14:29b; Is. 52:12). 
4. The environment you are in and the friends you keep may also influence your choice. Therefore, keep company with only believers of like passion (1 Cor. 15:33).
5. Pray fervently. You need to keep the channel of communication with God open, especially by praying without ceasing. This will key you to the mind of God concerning who and when to marry (1 Cor. 2:9-11).

CONCLUSION 

Let God lead you in the choice of your marriage partner. 

QUESTIONS

1. Why a relationship with God before marriage?
2. How do you know God’s will in marriage?

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Memory Verse: “The glory of young men is their strength, and the beauty of old men is the grey head”- Proverb 20:29.

Bible Passage: Ecl. 12:1-8.

Introduction

The youthful stage is the period of human life between childhood and full adulthood. It is a state of being young. This is the period of human life where everyone can exercise strength to the fullest of their capacity. The way you live as a youth will determine what will become of you at old age. In Ecclesiastes 12:1, the Bible says “Remember now your Creator in the days of your youth, before the difficult days come, and the years draw near when you say “I have no pleasure in them”.

OUTLINES

1. Characteristics and biblical examples of a glorious youth
2. Maximizing your youthful strength.

CHARACTERISTICS AND BIBLICAL EXAMPLES OF A GLORIOUS YOUTH

Glorious youths aren’t common people because they use their strength to achieve greater results in their time. the word STRENGHT goes beyond physical power and emotional toughness. It is the totality of raw potentials given by God to fulfill specific purpose or to perform an assignment on earth (Jer. 1;5). This strength brings out the Glory in a youth (1 Sam. 16:18). Yor potentials are your strength in life. If you want to saor higher in life, you must identify your potential and build your strength on it. Glorious youths are people who are willing to learn and act on what they have have been thought (2 Timothy 2:1-2). They have big dreams which they pursue relentlessly until they are fulfilled (Gen 42:9). They are zealous and use their zeal creatively for the peace and progress of the nations (1 Sam. 17:32). they are people of great reputation (Gen. 39:9). Glorious youths are very creative and innovative in their chosen career (2 Chro. 2:14).

Youths in the Bible did exploits and records of their works are noted for us to emulate today. Some of them include: Joseph (Gen. 41: 38-46), David (1 Sam. 17:19-37). Shadrack, Meschack amnd Abednego (Daniel 3: 16-18), Mary (Luke 1: 27-28), Timothy (2 Timothy 1:2-5) and jesus (Luke 2: 42-52).These are examples of young people who did not wait until they were all grown up to serve God. They were not the future. They were present. They made a huge impact in the world in their youth. 

By the standard of the Bible, Christian youths are spiritually endowed to take the lead and subdue nations for Christ anywhere they find themselves in the world. Youths are to be in the forefront of revolutions (both physical and spiritual) in this time and age. Youths are to take control of every sector of leadership and economy of the world. Christian youths need to behave like the children , who understands the time and season. 

MAXIMIZING YOUR YOUTHFUL STRENGHT

The major pre-equisite to serve God effectively in your youth is to give your life to Christ with no reservation. There are many areas of strength that every youth must harness and maximise for the kingdom’s profitability. Here are some of them:

I. Speech: Talk in a way that honours God (Eph. 4:25-29). Stop telling lies; only use words that are true because God is truthful (Eph. 4: 25-29). Use words that are gentle (Prov. 15:1). Gentleness means to remain calm and kind, even when you are angry. Do not shout or use harsh words. Use words that are pure. No cursing or use of dirty words. Use words that are loving. Do not hurt people with your words nor talk about them behind their back. Use your words to encourage, teach, comfort, give good advice and build them up in the way of the Lord (Eph. 4:29). 

2. Life: Imitate Christ with your actions (1 John 2:6). Read your Bible every day so that you can learn what Christ is like. You cannot act like Chirst if you do not know what He is like. Obey God’s word whenever you read the Bible. Also. in every situation in life, ask yourself ” What would Jesus do?”, and then do it. 

3. Love: Do everything with love. Being a Christian is all about love. Jesus said the greatest commandment is love (Mattew 22:37-40; 1 Cor. 16:14). Let love be your highest goal. If you want to serve God in your youth, then, do everything with love. Make your life all about love (John 3:16). 

#4. Faith: Have unwavering confidence in God. Faith is confidence in God, that He is who He says he is and will do what He says He will do. (Heb. 11:1). The best and perhaps the only way to set an example of unwavering faith is in the face of trials. Trials are faith tests. When the storms of life hit. Do not get angry with Him (Romans 8:28).

#5 Purity: Strive for total sexual purity. God’s will for our sexuality is to keep all sexual activity in marriage- visual, mental, emotional, and physical. This applies to single people and married people (1 Thess. 4;3-5; Romans 12:1-2).

CONCLUSION: God wants you to serve Him in your youth by duly committing yourself to Him (Proverbs 3:5-8). Do not wait for adulthood. Rather, begin right. The best way to start serving god is by setting an example for others to follow. Be an exemplary Christian. Set an example of a fully-devoted Christian, and God will use you in a mighty way. 

QUESTIONS 

1. What are the characteristics of a glorious youth?
2. How can you maximise your youthful strength ?

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TOPIC: Baptism In The Holy Spirit

 OPENING PRAYER: Father, please open my eyes of understanding.

Memory Verse: “But thou, Daniel, shut up the words, and seal the book until the time of the end; many shall run to and fro, and knowledge shall increase”– Daniel 12:4 (NKJV).

Bible Passage: Colossians 4:5-6.

INTRODUCTION

Hundreds of millions of people are becoming increasingly interested in social networking sites to enjoy and maximise the relational opportunities of these sites. Are these networking sites the next big mission field or an enormous waste of time? Should a Christian participate in social networking? The answer to these questions should be determined by whether we can honestly ask God to bless and use our actions for His own good purposes (1 Cor. 10:31). 

OUTLINES 

1. SOCIAL MEDIA DESCRIBED
2. IMPACT OF THE SOCIAL MEDIA

SOCIAL MEDIA DESCRIBED

Social media are web-based technologies that facilitate the sharing of ideas, thoughts and information through the building of virtual networks and communities. By design, social media is internet-based and gives users quick electronic communication of content (user-generated content) which is the lifeblood of the social media organism. Social media websites and applications are such that enable users to create and share content or to participate in social networking.

A social networking service is an online platform which people use to build social networks or social relationships with other people who share similar personal, business or career interests, activities, backgrounds or real-life connections. There are various social network platforms used by individuals based on their interests and purpose for use. Some commonly used social media sites are Youtube, Facebook, Instagram, Quora, TikTok, Facebook, Messanger, Pinterest, Viber, Discord, Twitter, WhatsApp, LinkedIn, Google+, Telegram, Skype, QQ, Tumblr, Reddit, Snapchat, Zoom and other professional/business platforms. 

IMPACT OF THE SOCIAL MEDIA

It is important to understand the impact our status, photo, comments or blog posts may have in the future (Prov. 11:27-28). It should be remembered that social networking sites involve publishing on the internet mostly for public views which include friends, family, church members, current and future employers, school admission personnel etc. Social media has both positive and negative impacts on users. 

Some of the positive impacts are: 

I. The potential of the social media can be harnessed for the propagation, expansion and growth of the gospel (Is. 11:9):

ii. Corporate engagement: Social media can help improve an individual’s sense of reasoning with real or online communities and be entrepreneurs, profits and non-profit making organisations, advocacy groups, political parties, government sectors, etc. 

iii. Building of relationships: Families, friends, associates etc. can easily connect and reconnect for meaningful relationships (Prov. 18:24). 

iv. Social Media Influencers: These are social users who have established credibility and audience, who can persuade others by virtue of their trust-0worthiness and authenticity. You can become a great Influencer for God through social media (1 Timothy 4:12; 2 Timothy 2:1-2; Titus 2:7). Souls can be won and discipled through you as you showcase Christ and the kingdom’s virtues to the world.

v. Ease of doing business: Products and services can be advertised or marketed in real time. It gives the opportunity to create a sales funnel whereby a new contact becomes a potential/serious customer (Proverbs 22:29). 

Some of the negative impacts are:

I. Uncontrolled/untamed posts (pictures, videos, captions etc)- Proverbs 18:2; Col. 4:6. The consequence of any statements, both now and in the future, should be considered. It should be assumed that everything written or said is permanent and viewable by everyone (Prov. 21:23).

ii. Treating the Bible as irrelevant or archaic in relation to modern trends and techniques. Spreading of heretical teachings and half-truths.

iii. Playing down the God-factor as a social media influencer for the sake of retaining followers from all walks of life (Romans 1:28). 

iv. Self-Isolation. Avoid physical meetings or interactions while using social media as a disguise to engage in some unethical activities/behaviour. 

v. Social media addictions (Galatian 5:1): Limiting the amount of time( except for business purposes) we devote to these social networking sites is both healthy and wise. 

vi. Attention deficiency syndrome i.e inability to concentrate on a task or programme for a specific period without diverting to social media. 

vii. Physical disconnection among close relatives. Family members living together can even become familiar strangers. 

viii. Vanity metrics. Relying on the response from others through likes, and comments to your posts in judging your self-worth or importance.

ix. Activities of scammers and fraudsters.

x. Narcissism. Excessive self-love or self-importance emerges when we rely on social media sites primarily to promote ourselves or draw attention to ourselves.

CONCLUSION: Be disciplined in the use of social media. It is also wise to have accountability partners; encourage your spouse, family members and Christian brothers/sisters to view your social networking activity and hold you accountable (Prov. 27:17).

QUESTIONS

1. Describe social media mention four (4) different social media sites you are familiar with.
2. Mention four (4) importance of social media to you and your followers as a user.

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Memory verse: “And God gave Solomon wisdom and understanding exceeding much, and the largeness of heart, even as the sand that is on the seashore”-1 Kings 4:29. 

Bible Passage: 2 Chronicles 9:22-28.

INTRODUCTION

King Solomon was born in Jerusalem 1000BC to King David and Bathsheba. He was David’s sixteenth son. Solomon was a fabulously wealthy and wise king of the United Kingdom of Isreal who succeeded his father King David. He was one of the most powerful kings of the eastern lands. He is the author of 3000 proverbs and he composed 1005 songs. (1 Kings 4:32). 

OUTLINES 

1. CHARACTER AND HIS ACHIEVEMENTS 
2. LESSONS FROM HIS LIFE. 

CHARACTER AND HIS ACHIEVEMENTS 

King Solomon ruled Isreal between 970BC and 930BC. He wrote Song of Solomon (also called Song of Songs), Proverbs and Ecclesiastes. He asked the Lord for an understanding heart to judge His People so that he might discern between good and evil (1 Kings 3:9). Because he did not ask for long life, riches and the life of his enemies, the Lord gave him “a wise and understanding heart” (1 Kings 3:11-12). He built the House of the Lord, the temple, on Mount Moriah (2 Chro. 3:1). 

King Solomon was famously known for his wisdom (2 Chronicles 9:22). He surpassed all of the kings of the earth in riches and honour in his days (1 Kings 3:13). His reign was the most peaceful as he did not fight any war (1 Kings 4:24). towards the end of his life, he had 700 wives (Princesses) and 300 concubines (1 Kings 11:3). He summed up all life had taught him in the last chapter of Ecclesiastes: “…fear God and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man” (Ecl. 12:13b). 

LESSONS FROM HIS LIFE

The wisest and the richest man that ever lived was Solomon. God revealed Himself to him physically and talked with him twice. King Solomon took many foreign wives for himself, which God had forbidden him to do, and they turned his heart to other gods, as God had warned Him. So, God tore the kingdom out of the hand of his son (1 Kings 11:1-12). Here are some of the crucial lessons to learn from the life of Solomon. 

1. If you need wisdom, ask God for it and He will give it to you. If you believe and do not waver (James 1:5-8).
2. Do not take things of the world unto yourself, or they may become a snare to you- keep yourself separate from them (1 John 2:15-17).
3. Riches and wisdom will not keep you spiritually safe if you insist on disobeying God (Col. 3:5-6). 
4. We should not just know what is right, but do what is right (James 4:17).

King Solomon had it all and failed in so many ways but he found restoration in the arms of God. He then shared his own journey and tried to encourage others to avoid such traps in the books he authored. His sin led to the kingdom being divided in the hand of his son. 

Conclusion: Solomon was human just like all of us and everyone makes mistakes. Thankfully, if we genuinely repent, we serve a redeeming God whose grace and love are unmatched. 

QUESTIONS

1. What are the achievements of King Solomon?
2. Mention five (5) lessons from the life of King Solomon.

Action Point
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Memory Verse: “Recompense to no man evil for evil. Provide things honest in the sight of all men”- Romans 12:17. 

Bible Passage: Genesis 13: 7-9.

Introduction

A family is defined as a group of people related by blood, marriage, adoption or custom. Generally, conflict can be defined as a solid disagreement between persons or groups that often results in heated arguments. Conflict management is the practice of being able to identify and handle conflict sensibly, fairly and efficiently. Conflict is inevitable. No relationship is perfect or conflict-free, but conflict when managed biblically can serve as a catalyst for change and opportunity for good family growth. 

OUTLINES 

1. CONFLICT IN THE FAMILY AND ITS CAUSES 
2. BIBLICAL WAYS OF MANAGING CONFLICT WITHIN THE FAMILY

CONFLICT IN THE FAMILY AND ITS CAUSES 

I. Misunderstanding among members of immediate or extended family.

ii. Contradictory interest among family members (Amos 3:3).

iii. Incompatibility 

iv. Unresolved disagreement (Eph. 4: 26-27).

v. Lack of trust (Prov. 31:11). 

vi. Unforgiveness (2 Cor. 2:10-11). 

vii. Communication gap (Heb. 13:16). 

viii. Unfaithfulness (Gen. 39:7-12).

ix. Financial challenges (1 Timothy 6:8-10). 

x. Lack of genuine love (Col. 3:19; 1 Peter 1:22).

BIBLICAL WAYS OF MANAGING CONFLICT WITHIN THE FAMILY

1. Examine yourselves (Ps. 26:2; 2 Cor. 13:5).
2. Love God and put him at the centre of your family (Deut. 6:4-5). 
3. Forgive one another (Luke 17:3; Eph. 4:26). 
4. Communicate effectively and resolve all conflicts as fast as possible (Romans 12:17-18). 
5. Maintain openness and sincerity with one another (Gen. 2:25).
6. Live a life of humility (Prov. 29:23; Jer. 13:18).
7. Love one another (1 Peter 1:22). 
8. Revenge not yourself for wrongs done against you (Romans 12:19).
9. Commit your ways to the Lord (Ps. 37:5). 
10. Take every matter to God in prayers (James 5:16). 

CONCLUSION: According to the word of God, all old conflicts must be resolved while there should not be an occasion for a new one for God to accept our worship (Matt. 5:23-25). 

QUESTIONS

1. What are the causes of conflicts within the family?
2. Mention five (5) ways of managing conflict within the family. 

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Memory Verse: “Neither give place to the devil”- Eph 4:27.

Bible Passage: 1 Cor. 7:1-40. 

Introduction

God is the author of marriage (Gen.2:24). He designed it to bring glory to His name and also for man to enjoy. However, many marriages today are not conforming to the will of God. Rather than bringing pleasure, many marriages are full of pains and tales of woes because of human choices made contrary to biblical blueprints. In this lesson, we shall unravel some of the gaps prevalent in some marriages leading to unfaithfulness among couples. 

OUTLINES

1. FORMS OF MARITAL GAPS 
2. SOME PRACTICAL WAYS TO BRIDGE THE GAPS

A. Location Gaps: Long period of absence, whether for work or serving in the military, greatly reduces the opportunities couples have to properly bond. Examples are the Photiphars (Genesis 39: 5-7) and the Uriahs (2 Samuel 11). Long-distance marriage is not ideal.

B. Emotional Gaps: The feeling of insecurity and loneliness, whether emotional, physical or sexual, can create a gap between couples. The search for excitement to escape boredom and experiment with new things like adopting new hobbies or hanging out with new friends can affect relationships between spouses. 

C. Poor boundaries: Poor personal boundaries, or the limits we place on other people as to what we find acceptable or unacceptable, can result in a marital gap. 

D. Revenge: The desire to pay back the wrongdoing of a partner in the “same coin” can result in a marital gap. 

E. Sexual Gaps: Many partners in a marital relationship are not enjoying sex or getting satisfaction sexually. They are only enduring and coping because their spouses are not sensitive to their sexual needs. Regardless of gender, having an uninteresting sex life could put your relationship at risk of infidelity. 

F. Financial Gaps: When the financial orientation of the couple differs and both parties fail to reach a compromise as to how money should be managed, there are bound to be conflicts which may negatively affect our union.

G. Physical/physiological gaps: There are also situations where a couple does not pay attention to each other or does not live like a normal couple, go out together or have a passionate relationship. Eventually, one or both of them look outside their relationship for someone whom they want to be with. (Mal. 2:14-16).

H. Communication Gaps: Communication is one of the most fundamental components of a successful relationship. If you cannot talk to your spouse and listen to what he or she has to say, you will have a hard time making it through the difficult hurdles in your marriage. Not being able to share secrets, stories and feeling with their spouses can lead some people to open up to others emotionally. 

I. Excessive Use of The Internet and Social Media: Connecting with other people and talking or chatting with them for hours at length at home, work or even in some public places at the expense of your spouse can extend the gap in your relationship. 

SOME PRACTICAL WAYS TO BRIDGE THE GAPS 

You can take your relationship to the next level by practically taking some steps to bridge the gaps: 

1. Avoid living separately in the name of a job offer or searching for ‘greener pasture”. 
2. Understand your spouse’s love languages i.e ask and do things that make them want to be with you the more e.g holding hands. 
3. Go together on Dates; visit other families, friends and colleagues together. 
4. Commend the good things your spouse does.
5. Condemn what is bad in love (not the person but the act)  and apologise correctly. Give no room to the devil (Eph. 4;27).
6. Handle matters discreetly and immediately. 
7. Celebrate each other, exchange gifts regularly and create a conducive atmosphere for God’s presence in your homes (Ps. 133:1).

CONCLUSION

Marriages succeed on intentional effort and purposeful choices made by the partners to make it heaven on earth. 

QUESTIONS

1. What are the forms of marital gaps?
2. Mention five (5) practical ways of bridging marital gaps.

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Memory Verse: “Let us, therefore, follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another”. -Romans 14:18.

BIBLE PASSSAGE: 1 SAMUEL 15:12-26.

INTRODUCTION

Originally, the word ‘apology’ (or apologia in Greek) means a defence, excuse, or justification in speech or writing, as for a cause or doctrine. However, towards the end of the 16th Century, there was a twist in the use of the word “apology” to mean a written or spoken expression of one’s regret, remorse, or sorrow for having insulted, failed, injured or wronged another.

As Christians, we know we are meant to be kind, loving, humble and respectful (Eph. 4:32). One true test of this is how we handle situations when we have been wronged or wronged by others. A lot of people find it hard to admit when confronted with the wrongs they have committed. Some may even find it harder to ask someone for forgiveness especially when they feel the other person shares in the blame.

OUTLINES

1. Why “I am sorry” is not enough.
2. The Correct Approach

There is a subtle but sensitive difference between saying ‘sorry’ and apologising correctly. Most times, people’s idea of apologising correctly. Most times, people’s idea of an apology is insufficient. For some, offering an apology is all about verbally saying “I am sorry” but it is only a band-aid in that it covers up painful events for the other person without really making things right. It does not fully take into account the level of wrong done. Although, simply saying “I am sorry” might ease the tension of bumping into someone accidentally or mistakenly saying what should not be said, when we have truly wronged someone, that person needs us to accept responsibility for the pain caused. Saying sorry just because we are caught and not because we are humble enough to truly admit our wrongs or shifting blames (making excuses is called “fauxology” (false apology). This is wrong. God is not impressed (Gen. 50:15-18; 1 Samuel 15: 24-26). 

Therefore, a true apology focuses on your actions and not on the other person’s response/action. 

THE CORRECT APPROACH

Whenever we wronged God or someone else, God expects us to make things right (2 Chro. 7:14). Often, when a person apologises in the wrong way, the offence is not cleared. Some of the wrong approaches include the following statements:

1. “I was wrong, but you were wrong too”. This is incorrect because you are not taking full responsibility for your offence.
2. “If I have been wrong, please forgive me”. To use if, before your apology means that you are saying, “I am not really convinced that I was wrong”. Therefore it is not a real apology.
3. “I am sorry I know I lost my temper, but you make me do it”. This is wrong because you are not taking responsibility for your wrongdoing but putting the blame on the other person. 
4. “I said I was sorry. What more do you want from me?” The apology is not correct because the tone is aggressive, not remorseful and may not give the offended enough time to heal. 

To apologise correctly, we should take full responsibility for our offence, name the offence, ask the person to forgive us and wait for the answer(Matt. 5:23-24). If need be, offer also to make restitution (Luke 19:8). 

Here is an example of the right way to apologise. “Chrisy, I was wrong in losing my temper and talking to you the way I did, please forgive me”. To settle the matter completely, if the person says that you are forgiven, it is good to ask, “Do I need to say any more about the matter?” 

When a Christian apologises correctly, he is demonstrating humility, a character quality God holds in high esteem (James 4:10). Being reconciled to an offended brother or sister should be our priority (Matt. 5:23-24). Note that you do not apologise to people for being right with God (1 John 3:21).

Biblical examples of those that offered apologies correctly include the prodigal son (Luke 15: 17-20) and Jacob (Gen. 32:33). 

CONCLUSION

Apologising correctly humbles us and reminds us that we still make mistakes and need forgiveness from God and others. 

QUESTIONS

1. Why is it that “I am sorry” is not enough?
2. What is the correct approach to apologise?

Action Point
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Memory Verse: “Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might; for there is no work or device or knowledge or wisdom in the grave where you are going”-Ecl. 9:10

Bible Passage: Genesis 26: 12-22. 

INTRODUCTION

One of the crucial challenges every human faces is the discovery of his purpose for living. When the use of a thing is not known, abuse is inevitable. If you do not know what God has prepared you for, you may not be able to operate successfully as an entrepreneur. That is why it is important to find out what exactly it is, God has purposed for your life and acquire the necessary skills for the accomplishment of this divine purpose in the contemporary, complex and competitive world you live in. 

OUTLINES

1. Discover your creative ability
2. Develop essential skills

DISCOVER YOUR CREATIVITY ABILITY

God is the first entrepreneur (Genesis 1: 1-31), the source of all creativity, and the originator of our ability to make something of value out of the raw materials of this world ( John 1:3; Hebrew 11:3). God expresses your purpose through prayer, Bible study, education, training, dreams, visions, instincts, inclinations, desires, counselling, urgings and yearnings towards particular areas (Jer. 29:11; Ps. 119:105; Prov. 3:5-6). 

The entrepreneurial process requires a lot from a person. It requires them to look at the world and see an unmet need, an area of dissatisfaction, or a problem. Visualize a solution, often a solution others belittle. In many cases, the solution requires a completely different approach, something no one else could see (Genesis 44:34-40; Genesis 47: 13-26). 

To create something truly useful, lasting and of value, we must create as God did. The enterprise must serve others, give them value, make life more enjoyable and glorify God (Colossians 3:17). A person that creates purely for himself as a hobby, not a business. When your hobby translates into a business, it adds value to others. When the motivation, as well as the business, is honourable. God delights to bless it (Ps. 37:23). Accepting Jesus Christ as your Saviour and having a relationship with Him is the prerequisite to discovering God’s purpose for you as an entrepreneur (Is. 2:5; 1 John 1:7; Eph. 5:8). 

Develop Essential Skills

The following are the essential skills required from an entrepreneur:

1. Communication skill: The ability of the entrepreneur to pass information about the product, its unique selling point, price and other relevant information that the customer should be aware of about the product and the company (Colossians 4:6; Eccl. 10:12; Mark 9:50; 1 Peter 3:15).

2. Listening skill: This is the ability of the entrepreneur to be attentive and respond to the prospective customer’s questions and complaints about the product being introduced to them through personal selling, sales promotion, etc. The salesman must not be aggressive in his approach so that he can successfully close sales (James 1:19). 

3. Negotiation skill: This is the ability of the entrepreneur to bargain successfully with the middlemen i.e wholesaler and retailer about place orders, volume/quantity of product, pricing, discount and other incentives provided by the company with utmost sincerity and proper articulation of its policies on penetration, distribution, and competitive strategies (Luke 14:28; Genesis 21: 28-31). 

4. Conflict management skill: The ability to settle disputes amicably between the company and its customer is another vital skill required from an entrepreneur (Heb. 12:14). 

5. Problem-solving skill: The entrepreneur should possess the ability to identify, analyze and proffer appropriate solutions to various problems encountered in carrying out its selling activities. He must be able to gather relevant information from veritable sources, and analyze and interpret the information in line with his knowledge about consumer behaviour and purchasing decision process. 

6. Interpersonal skill: The entrepreneur must be able to interact with people easily and relate with them because anybody met is a potential customer someday or somewhere. The salesperson must be approachable, cheering and purposeful (1 Sam 22:1-2).

7. Time Management skill: Proper time management is necessary to differentiate between extremely urgent tasks and those that can wait. An entrepreneur should use a notebook or whiteboard to prioritise tasks by writing them down (Ecl. 3:1). 

8. Technical skill: To be in stride with the recent times, entrepreneurs should at least have a basic knowledge about the technologies that are to be used (Dan. 9:2). 

9. Managerial skill: Entrepreneurs should have the required skill to manage different people such as clients, employees, co-workers, competitors etc (Gen. 39: 4,9a). 

10. Organizing skill: They should be highly organised and be able to maintain everything in a format and style (1 Chro. 12:32). 

CONCLUSION: Proper use of your skill is a gateway to becoming a successful entrepreneur. Be intentional. 

QUESTIONS 

1. How can you discover your creative ability as an entrepreneur?
2. Mention four (4) essential skills of an entrepreneur from the manual. 

Action Point
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Memory Verse: “Teaching us that, denying ungodliness and worldly lusts, we should live soberly, righteous and godly, in this present world”-Titus 2;12 (NKJV),

BIBLE PASSAGE: 2 Timothy 2:22-25.

LESSON INTRODUCTION: Lust is any strong ungodly desire. Lust acted upon always leads to sin and death (James 1:15). Sin entered God’s perfect world through Lust (Gen, 2:16-17). David lusted after Bathsheba (Uriah’s wife) and when he acted upon that lust, it led to adultery, murder of Uriah and the death of his infant son that resulted from the sinful act (2 Sam. 11:2-4, 14,15; 2 Sam. 12:13-14). Lust can take various dimensions but God has empowered us to overcome lustful thoughts. 

OUTLINES

Some Dimensions of Lust

Get Rid of Lustful Thoughts

Some Dimensions of Lust

Lust is not only a sexual nature (Matt. 5:28), Greed is lust for money or power (Prov. 15:27; 1 Timothy 6:10-11). Envy is lust for status or position someone else holds (Prov. 23:17). Covetousness is lust for anything we do not have (Ex. 20:17). Worldliness is lust for the mundane and ephemeral things of the world system (1 John 2:15-17).

Lust starts with a thought (Prov. 30:32). While we are not responsible for every thought that enters our heads, we are responsible for what we do with those thoughts (Ez. 38:10; Prov. 24:9). A lustful thought must be seen as an enemy and dealt with before it takes over our lives (James 1:14-15). The desire grows until it creates dissatisfaction with our current situation and imposes upon us the belief that happiness and contentment are impossible unless we have what we want (1 Timothy 6:18). Ungodly actions result from lustful thoughts, so, it is important that we get rid of such thoughts as soon as they arrive.

GET RID OF LUSTFUL THOUGHTS 

To get rid of lustful thoughts, you must first define your areas of weakness and greatest temptation. The next fundamental step is to consciously replace lustful thoughts with thoughts that are true, honourable, right, pure, lovely, admirable, excellent and worthy of praise (Phil. 4:8). We must take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ (2 Cor. 10:5). We must repent of entertaining lustful thoughts and ask the Lord’s help in redirecting our thoughts (Ps. 19:14). 

It’s the lustful thoughts we are trying to get rid of involving another person, we can defuse their power by turning those thoughts into prayers for the other person’s well-being. By bringing that person before the Lord, we weaken lust’s power to objectify them (Matt. 26:41). When we bring our will into an agreement with God’s will, we learn to see this person as He does, not as lust does.

Stopping lustful thoughts also requires filtering the information we are allowing into our minds through our senses (Prov. 4:23). If pornographic images have been burned into our minds through sinful viewing, we can ask the Lord to remove those images over time (Ps. 51:7,10). By refusing to look at things that incite lust, filtering our music or language that creates lustful thoughts, and banishing lustful memories from our catalogue, we can starve lustful thoughts until they have little to work with (2 Timothy 2:21). 

Memorising and meditating on Scripture is also a good way to avoid lustful thoughts and renew our minds (Col. 3:16; Romans 12:1-2, Psalms 119:9, 11, 105). keeping worship music playing in our wars also focuses our minds on that which is good, pure and beautiful. As we daily surrender ourselves to the Lordship of Christ, He helps transform a sinful thought life into one that pursues Him. Taking authority over lustful thoughts, rejecting them before they take root, and seeking God’s help can give us victory. 

Finally, you must resist the lust for things beyond what God has already given us(Numbers 11:4-6) and the lust of the devil (John 8:44). These include the lust for power, glory and prestige at all costs (Is. 14:13-14). You should rather long for righteousness (2 Timothy 2:22), avoid fake lives and lies (Exodus 23:1) or be dishonest (Deut. 25:14-16). 

CONCLUSION: Do not give room for lust to thrive in your life. 

ASSIGNMENT: Students should write five (5) areas of lust they are battling with and pray to God for victory over them (No mark).

Action Point
PS: If you would like to have an online course on any of the courses that you found on this blog, I will be glad to do that on an individual and corporate level, I will be thrilled to do that because I have trained several individuals and groups and they are doing well in their various fields of endeavour. Some of those that I have trained include staffs of Dangote Refinery, FCMB, Zenith Bank, New Horizons Nigeria, and Phillips Consulting among others. Please come on Whatsapp and let’s talk about your training. You can reach me on Whatsapp HERE. Please note that I will be using Microsoft Team to facilitate the training.

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