Memory Verse: “Let her be as the loving hind and pleasant roe; let her breasts satisfy thee at all times; and be thou ravished always with her love”- Prov. 5:19.
BIBLE PASSAGE: PROVERBS 5: 15-20.
INTRODUCTION
To be ravished is to have a feeling of delight, being filled with wonder and enchantment. So, to ravish your spouse is to give him or her an atmosphere full of passion and fascination. The husband , as well as hs wife , has crucial roles to play to enjoy a romantic and succesful marriage.
OUTLINES
- ROLES OF THE HUSBAND AND HIS WIFE
- BENEFITS OF RAVISHING YOUR SPOUSE.
ROLES OF THE HUSBAND AND HIS WIFE
Being a good husband is not something that comes naturally to some men. However, loving another person is the most selfless thing anyone can do. Therefore:
- A husband who loves his wife should celebrate her always (Prov. 31:28b) be her best friend , appreciate her and share in her feelings (Genesis 26:8).
- A good husband should be protective and shield his wife from being disrespected by others (Eph. 5:29).
- He also respects her opinions , wishes , beliefs and communicates without using abusive words (Col. 3:19; 4-5).
- He does not force her to give up on her dreams to follow his, rather , they talk things through to see what works for both of them (Romans 12:10).
- the husband should focus on the strength of his wife and talk less about her weaknesses (discuss the grey area and pray together for a change)-1 Peter 3:7; 4:8).
- Do not lose the romance (SOS 1:2; Prov. 5:19). To be romantic, a husband should keep in mind important dates (wedding anniversary, birthdays etc) Romans 12:15.
- As a good husband, be humorous and know how to cheer up your wife especially when she feels low (Prov. 15:13;17:22).
On the hand, married women should note that :
- To ravish your husband is a divine assignment given to you by God- to be your husband’s helper (Genesis 2:18; Prov.12:4).
- They should be a woman of virtue (Prov. 12:4; 14:1).
- To ravish your husband, you must be submissive to him (Eph. 5:22; 1 Peter 3:1-2).
- As a wife you should be spiritually , emotionally, intellectually, the recreationally knitted with your husband (Prov. 12:25).
- They must be caring and manage the home well (Prov. 31:15).
- Meeting your husband’s sexual needs is vital. Do not use sex as a weapon of denial. (SOS 1:13; 1 Cor. 7:4-5).
- The husband must be celebrated and honoured as a king in fact, he is your king.
BENEFITS OF RAVISHING YOUR SPOUSE
When a husband and his wife are knitted, there will be intimacy and mutual trust (Mark 10:8). Their love will be unquenchable (SOS 8:7). There will be joy, peace and progress in the home (Psalms 128;1-6). It will contribute to good health (Prov. 14:30). Without a doubt , God will be present in such a loving home and their prayers will receive quick answers. (Matt. 18:19;1 Peter 3:7).
CONCLUSION
Sweeten your relationship with your spouse and the bliss will be long lasting.
QUESTIONS
- Mention two roles each, for the husband and his wife.
- What are the benefits of ravishing one’s spouse?
ASSIGNMENT
List five (5) things each, that a husband and his wife can do to make ravishing one another difficult (2×5=10 Marks).
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